dzīvoju ārzemēs, tāpēc iekopēšu savu jautājumu un situācijas aprakstu no cita foruma..
zinu jau zinu, ka nevar katigorizēt pēc horoskopiem, bet šoreiz, šķiet, kas tas ir vērā ņemams faktors.. ja nu kādai ir luste lasīt un ko nokomentēt - ļoti priecāšos! paldies
firstly, we are working together.. ok, let me try again - he is my boss. but, we work at a nightclub, he is the owner of it.. and i'm a bartender.
when i started to work he just seemed this really nice guy, very open minded, easy to talk to, very polite. few times after our shifts we had a few drinks, just talked about life in general. soon he opened up in a way. about personal things.. started to tell me about his ex girlfriends, what he liked about them, what he didn't, and stuff. everything going nice and friendly, but then he starts this stupid thing "i hate you".. basically, he jokingly said he sees in my eyes i hate him.. I'm a cancer, so i was pretty reserved and just said he's being silly.. he kept doing that bullish*t for ages, until i complained to supervisors that i just can't work with him :D afterwards he acted like nothing had happened.. but this time being overly friendly etc. we started to communicate again in a normal way.. soon we started to talk about him and relationships, he was asking for my advice, asking for approval to hit on girls in his own club, do i like them, what is my opinion about them.. when i said "do whatever" and just smiled, he didn't do anything, but again made up some bullish*t that "i have banned him from girls".. and now he can't do anything because of me... he's a player and i know (see) it, and i don't care.. he knows it too, so i sometimes nag him about it :-D so i see it just like general messing around in a workplace. however, today he invited me to watch some kind of boxing game at weekend with him after we finish our shift.. what is weird is that he is living on the top floor of the club and he wants to watch it there.. basically at his place. it got me confused.
just want to figure what is happening?
thank you guys! i appreciate..